Monday, March 2, 2015

Jak zaplanować wesele?


Jak zaplanować wesele?


Autor: Memtos

Kiedy opadnie zaręczynowa euforia, przychodzi czas na zderzenie z rzeczywistością, która stawia przed przyszłą parą młodą jedno z największych wyzwań logistycznych w ich życiu.

Z jednej strony planowanie wesela w dzisiejszych czasach wydaje się o niebo łatwiejsze niż kiedyś, głównie z uwagi na powszechny dostęp do internetu, w którym aż roi się od stron i programów, nie tylko pomagających nam uporządkowanie naszych pomysłów na organizację tego najważniejszego dnia w życiu, ale będących również źródłem inspiracji. Z drugiej strony ta ogólna dostępność gotowych scenariuszy ślubnych i weselnych wiąże się z ryzykiem wtórności wybranej przez nas koncepcji. Mimo to ogrom wartościowych witryn związanych z tematyką ślubną na pewno pomoże przebrnąć nam przez wszystkie etapy przygotowań do wielkiego dnia.
W pierwszej kolejności musimy zdecydować o rodzaju uroczystości: czy zawieramy ślub cywilny czy kościelny, czy skłaniamy się ku nieformalnemu przypieczętowaniu związku. Powinniśmy też przemyśleć, jak dużą imprezę chcemy zorganizować i czy marzy nam się tradycyjne, wielkie wesele, czy pragniemy ten dzień spędzić jedynie w gronie najbliższych. Kolejnym krokiem powinno być spotkanie rodzin przyszłych państwa młodych, na którym przedyskutują one udział w finansowaniu całego przedsięwzięcia. Po ustaleniu najważniejszych kwestii nadchodzi czas na dokonanie rezerwacji terminów w kościele czy urzędzie stanu cywilnego oraz zebranie informacji na temat koniecznych do skompletowania dokumentów oraz terminów na ich dostarczenie. W przypadku ślubu konkordatowego czeka nas również zaplanowanie nauk przedmałżeńskich. Na tym etapie powinniśmy również wybrać naszych świadków.
Po ustaleniu daty ślubu i załatwieniu podstawowych formalności musimy zdecydować się na miejsce przyjęcia weselnego. Możliwości jest nieograniczenie wiele – tradycyjny dom weselny, restauracja, hotel, a jeśli planujemy nasz wielki dzień w sezonie letnim – w grę wchodzi również impreza plenerowa z namiotem. Musimy również przemyśleć menu, a jeśli wybrane przez nas miejsce tego nie oferuje – zatroszczyć się o catering. Kolejnym stojącym przed nami wyzwaniem jest wybór fotografa oraz kamerzysty, którzy uwiecznią dla nas ten najważniejszy w życiu dzień. Już na kilka miesięcy przed ślubem powinniśmy zaopatrzyć się w suknię oraz strój dla pana młodego oraz zamówić obrączki. Równie istotnym jest zarezerwowanie terminu u fryzjera oraz zamówienie makijażu ślubnego. Warto również umówić się na czesanie i makijaż próbny, żeby uniknąć niemiłego zaskoczenia w dniu naszego święta.
Planowanie i przygotowanie ślubu i wesela powinno być dla nas czasem radości i ekscytacji, warto je zatem gruntownie przemyśleć, tak, żeby było dla nas źródłem cudownych wspomnień, a nie pasmem frustracji poprzedzających nasz wielki dzień.

Witold Bilski
Yellow Catering
ul. Festynowa 38
42-200 Częstochowa
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Sunday, March 1, 2015

Stand Out In Stunning 2015 Wedding Dresses

Stand Out In Stunning 2015 Wedding Dresses

Stand Out In Stunning 2015 Wedding Dresses
By Jovia D'Souza

The wedding dress has been transformed over the years breaking away from the traditional white long dress that became too usual. Modern brides can now look their best and be as unique as they wish to be on their big day thanks to the amazing designs the wedding dresses are now presented in. If you are planning a wedding this year, there are lots of wedding dress ideas and trends you can pick to look your very best on your big day.

Sheer Sleeves and Lace Hints

This is one of the best wedding dress trends you can pick this year. It is utterly romantic and soft as it should be. The sheer sleeves with lace hints are what make the wedding dress stand out and you will be attracting attention to all the right places in the best way possible for that matter. The sleeve styles are pretty and you will just love the final look on your big day.

Blue Dresses

This year you can break away from the white wedding dress tradition and indulge in some real nice color code. Blue is the bridal color that seems to be making a hit this year, thanks to how sophisticated and pretty it is. You will find pretty blue dress designs to suit your body type. Other colors that can work great too in breaking the white dress tradition include pistachio and silvery purple. You can choose glam necklines and sheer panels to make your wedding dress pop even more in these stunning colors.

Cut Above Dresses

They are the dresses that come in two pieces and have crop tops or cut outs tops. They are not only suitable for weddings, but also amazing for pre-wedding events you might have like the bridal shower and bachelorette parties. It is a risky style, but with a carefully done design to work with your right natural body type and shape, you can pull off this look and be stunning and elegant for your big day.

Unique Necklines

The neckline of your wedding dress can give it a transformational look and make it very unique. This year you can work with the ultra-dramatic necklines like plunging v-necks and high neck dress styles. They clearly break from the sweetheart and strapless necklines that wedding dresses have taken over the years.

Off Shoulder Dresses

This is another great style for the year. The look is sexy and romantic and will flatter any figure. You can work with sleeve treatments creating a triangle shape to be supremely stunning. The secret to pull off this look is to ensure that you are most comfortable in your dress. Couplets can also work out great for brides with a need to cover arms without committing to dress sleeves. They make the dresses quite interesting. The most important thing when choosing the right wedding gown is to go with a style that matches your personality and hence ends up being as comfortable as it should be throughout the day.

Wedding dresses 2015 options are numerous. There are so many trends to choose from and you also have the choice to custom make a style you love most by combining more than one dress style.

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Saturday, February 28, 2015

Key Horoscope Tips For a Successful Brahmin Wedding

Key Horoscope Tips For a Successful Brahmin Wedding Key Horoscope Tips For a Successful Brahmin Wedding
By Sanjay Jignesh Mehta
A horoscope plays a very important role in a Hindu wedding. Before the wedding is fixed, the parents meet an astrologer who advises whether a couple is compatible or not from a zodiac or horoscope perspective. While other communities may be a little flexible in this regard, the Brahmin community is very particular about the compatibility of horoscopes. Most of them won't go ahead with a marriage if the horoscopes don't match. In this article, we look at some key criteria that affect a Brahmin wedding.
Gunas: When the astrologer is matching the couple's horoscopes, they check compatibility on 8 different parameters or kutas, such as varna (caste), vashya (mutual attraction), tara (birth star), nadi (health and physiology) among others. All of these 8 counts have certain weightages, and the total of all these kutas adds up to a total of 36 points (gunas). For instance, Varna has 1 point, Tara has 3 points, and so on. So for a couple, if all 36 gunas match, it is considered to be a perfect match. Anything above 27 is also considered to be good. If the total of gunas is between 18 and 24, it's still not a problem. However, if the score is below 18, the couple will be considered as incompatible.
Nadis: Of all the parameters, the most important is nadi or the one related to health, energy and physiology. When it comes to assigning points, nadi has the highest weightage with 8 points. According to Hindus, for a marriage to succeed a couple has to be born in different nadis. If they are born in the same nadi, they score zero points when the nadi koota is matched. This problem is known as 'nadi dosha', and it's a big negative when it comes to matching of horoscopes. However, there are certain times, when a marriage is allowed in spite of nadi dosha. For example, if the couple's birth stars are different, it is believed they won't be harmed by nadi dosha.
Mangalik: An important feature in horoscope matching is related to mangal dosha and whether the bride is a manglik. Being a manglik is linked to the position of the planet Mars in the horoscope. People believe that if somebody marries a mangalik girl, the husband will either die, or the marriage will end in a divorce. Some people believe that these problems are only related to the first marriage of the girl, and so the girl has to marry a tree to avoid any trouble in the future. This way, any harm related to mangal dosha will be caused to the first husband or the tree, and the second marriage with the actual spouse will be safe.
Gotra: Besides the 8 kutas, Brahmins also place emphasis on the gotra (lineage) kuta. It is a belief among the community that if both the bride and the groom belong to the same gotra or lineage, the marriage will not succeed. However, the gotra kuta does not have any points, and so it has no impact on the matching of 36 gunas.
These are some of the basics when it comes to matching of horoscopes. The young generation sometimes questions why horoscope affects only them, even though people from other communities are also happily married without bothering about the horoscope. Nevertheless, it's a belief that's been held for centuries, and the horoscope means a lot for Brahmins.
Mr. Sanjay is a professor of sociology, writes on Indian culture & social issues. To find interesting & useful information on Brahmin matrimony, marriage, culture & superstitions please follow me on EzineArticles.
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Friday, February 27, 2015

How to Plan and Deliver Wedding Talks and Toasts People With Enjoy and Remember

How to Plan and Deliver Wedding Talks and Toasts People With Enjoy and Remember

How to Plan and Deliver Wedding Talks and Toasts People With Enjoy and Remember
By Mike Moore

You are probably asking yourself what motivated a professional speaker to write a report on speaking tips and toasts at wedding receptions. I guess it is the result of attending receptions that I felt could use a bit of help in this department.

Wedding receptions are a wonderful part of our lives. They allow us to come together to meet friends and celebrate new beginnings with their families. When I was younger it was the weddings of close friends that we attended. Now we are going to the weddings of our friends' children. The great circle of life continues. For the most part they are enjoyable experiences, but the receptions are frequently experiences of frustration and a little tension.

I am sure that you, like me, have sat through receptions that made you say, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! The speeches went on forever and were often painful to listen to.

With this in mind I offer you my suggestions to help improve the quality of the talks and the toasts at you wedding.

Speech Preparation Outline

1. Think about the objective of your speech (What do you want to accomplish?) Do you want to thank them, praise them, welcome the bride or groom into the family? You must establish this before you continue.

2. List the 3 or 4 key points you want to get across. Don't list too many. You don't have all night.

3. List one or two well-chosen stories to illustrate your key points. Practice the stories so you can tell them well and effectively without relying too heavily on your notes.

How to Deliver a Dynamite Speech

* Prepare your speech thoroughly and practice before you deliver it.

* Always look at the audience when speaking. Don't look down at your notes.

* Don't read your talk. Give it. You can use cards with key points and story clues to assist you.

* Speak clearly. Don't mumble.

* Act as if you were born to deliver this speech. Remember the "Act as If" principle. If you act the way you want to be you will become the way you act. So if you act confidently when speaking you will become confident.

* Smile. Look as if you are really enjoying yourself and that delivering this speech is not only an honor but a pleasure as well.

* Use proper grammar. Have someone go over your speech with you beforehand. There is nothing worse than hearing someone giving a speech and using something like "Billy and me didn't do nothing... "

* Be yourself, of course, but be your best self.

* Avoid sarcastic humor in your speech. You are not there to hurt or insult others.

* Affirm and compliment the bride and groom throughout your talk.

* Avoid getting laughs by telling those present how much you and the groom can drink or how often you have seen one another throw up after a night of partying.

I promise that if you follow these few simple tips your speech/toast will touch the hearts of those present and will remembered with fondness for a long time.

This is a brief excerpt from my Special Report "Wedding Talks and Toasts." In it you will find you will find terrific tips pertaining to the role of Master/ Mistress of Ceremonies, how to select an MC, and how to deliver a dynamite speech//toast. I also offer suggestions on how to put humor into your speech that makes people laugh but doesn't offend and how to propose terrific toasts. Specific examples are also provided for your use.

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Thursday, February 26, 2015

Bridesmaid for Hire

Bridesmaid for Hire

Bridesmaid for Hire
By Connie H Deutsch

Most little girls, when thinking about their wedding someday, way into the future, dream about being the bride, not the bridesmaid. But one young woman loves weddings so much that she became a professional bridesmaid.

It seems like such a peculiar career, first, to conceptualize it, and then, to make it into a business, but a woman in her mid to late twenties did that very thing. She said that she loves weddings so much that she now does this professionally. She offers her services as a bridesmaid-for-hire to strangers for a fee.

I don't know what she does about bridesmaid dresses if the regular bridesmaid doesn't show up but I'll assume the panic-stricken bride is so grateful to have someone act as her bridesmaid at the last minute, that she doesn't go into a tailspin if her hired bridesmaid brings her own gown and it doesn't match the others.

Some businesses are neatly laid out but the bridesmaid business is not one of them. There are no schools to teach women the ropes for how to be a good bridesmaid like there are schools to teach women how to be a good nanny. It's definitely a seat of your pants learning experience. I can't even say it's on the job training because each wedding is different and you're dealing with different requirements for each job.

For some weddings, she has to take on so many duties that it could really qualify for being a wedding planner. For others, it's writing speeches for some of the people in the wedding party or getting the guests up to dance. She also has to take on the personal tasks that would ordinarily fall to a friend or family member like helping her lift her heavy gown to go to the bathroom.

The jobs are varied and no two weddings are the same. Sometimes you're dealing with guests who can't get along with each other; sometimes you're dealing with inefficient caterers or waitstaff.

No bridesmaid knows, in advance, what her role is going to be. She might think that all she has to do is perform simple tasks like dancing with the best man or getting the bridesmaids to dance with the groomsmen, or being on hand for the cutting of the cake or helping the bride out of her gown and getting her into her going away outfit.

She doesn't say whether she's ever wanted to be a bride, or if she was ever married, only that she loves going to weddings. Now, if she could marry a divorce attorney, they would really have a thriving business. Of course, she would get the best part, seeing them in their "in love" stage and her husband would get the hard part, seeing them discussing the division of their assets.

All in all, I like the bridesmaid part best. She gets to go to all the beautiful weddings, meeting new people, and leaving the cleanup to others, and the best part is that she also gets paid for having a good time doing what she loves to do.

Connie H. Deutsch is an internationally known business consultant and personal advisor who has a keen understanding of human nature and is a natural problem-solver.

Connie is the author of the books, "Whispers of the Soul," "A Slice of Life," "Whispers of the Soul for the Rest of Your Life," "From Where I'm Sitting," "View from the Sidelines," "Reaching for the Brass Ring of Life," "Purple Days and Starry Nights," "Here and There," "And That's How it Goes," and "The Counseling Effect." Her website: http://www.conniehdeutsch.com/ See more of her articles by clicking here ConnieHDeutsch Articles

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Wednesday, February 25, 2015

Wedding Preparations - Tips To Get You to The Church On Time

Wedding Preparations - Tips To Get You to The Church On Time

Wedding Preparations - Tips To Get You to The Church On Time
By Adam Merrifield

For many brides, the wedding ceremony starts long before they walk down the
aisle to stand beside their groom at the alter. For many, it is the preparation
that they have dreamed about for so long. The spa day with the brides maids,
the hair, the make up, fitting of the dress, putting the final touches on the
flowers... these are all taken care of ceremoniously by the bride, and her brides
maids. It is a time of pampering and luxury, that we seldom have an excuse
for, except on the fabulous occasion of the wedding day.

Unfortunately, it is part of the day that can make or break the flow of the hours
to follow. Careful planning and consideration must take place well in advance
of your wedding day to ensure a schedule that can be maintained and adhered
to. Nothing can create tension quite like the scene of a groom left waiting at
the alter, as the bride call from the salon to announce that they are running a
little late.

You already have the basic ideas of what needs to take place in the morning of
your wedding day, such as hair and make up; but did you consider, also, that
every brides maid in you wedding party needs to do the same? Did you
consider how you would all get to the salon, and when? Where is everyone
getting dressed, and when are we possibly going to have time to take pictures?
The brides home is one location that often torments photographers, as it is
often the most hectic time of the day. The following is a list of things the a
bride and brides maids should consider when planning the morning event on
the wedding day.

  • Set your alarm - sounds silly doesn't it, but it has saved many a marriage before they even wed
  • Eat breakfast - trust me, it is a very long day and you'll need the energy
  • Shower - it is something you do every day, but you'll forget to schedule time for it in a panic
  • Round up the brides maids - if they spent the night, you won't have any difficulty there
  • Head to the spa / salon - you'll have booked the earliest appointments months in advance, and keep in mind that the bride should have all of her treatments done first
  • Head back to the brides home - as soon as the bride has her hair and make up done, she should head back home to get dressed and photographed; the photographer will need an hour or two to get all the shots that you require
  • Have the flowers arrived yet?
  • Eat lunch - once you (the bride) has had her pictures taken, grab a quick bite while the photographer works with the rest of the bridal party
  • It's time to go the the church

The morning of your Wedding day will fly by quicker that you ever imagined, so
be sure to schedule enough time for everything that must take place. A well
planned morning will keep tempers down, faces smiling, and allow of to have
more fun. The rest of your Wedding day will benefit immensely for it.

Adam Merrifield is owner/operator of Merrifield Photography ([http://www.merrifield-photography.com/index.html], [http://www.merrifield-photography.com]), and chief editor of The Ontario Photographers Directory (http://www.onphodi.com [http://www.onphodi.com/index.html]). Adam also contributes regularly to the Footprints Newspaper, both as the staff photographer/ photojournalist and as a columnist.

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